The world's most popular lesbian dating app!

It's free to download, free to use, and a quick and easy sign-up... we don't ask for your email so discretion is guaranteed! Get connected!

Find gay, bi or curious girls nearby with Brenda, the only location based dating app that gives you video messaging!

50,000 downloads a month

1 Million messages sent per day

160+ countries using it

#1 lesbian dating app in the world

★ ★ ★ ★ on play store

Video messages

Brenda is the only lesbian dating app with video messages. Want to get know someone better? Easily create, send and receive video messages, up to 60 seconds long.

Travel mode.

Don't just use Brenda at home, wherever you go in the world, you can change your location and check out the local scene, it's used in over 160 countries and growing. You can even translate messages from another language.

Tracks.

Want to see who's been checking you out? Brenda's "tracks" feature let's you see the last 50 women who viewed your profile, and even tells you what they think of you!

Free push notifications.

Stay logged in even when Brenda is closed, and with unlimited push messages you'll know straight away when you have messages waiting!

10 photos per profile.

Upload up to 10 photos, more than most other apps.

Private photos.

You can easily lock your face pics for extra privacy.

Pin number protected.

Lock the app to keep out prying eyes.

Translate messages.

Chat to women in any language using our built-in translator.

We're listening – tell us what you think…

We're always trying to improve Brenda, let us know about your experience... email us at help@benderapp.com

"Just lovely!! Found my love
on here !
Nine months and strong!"

- Bryanna Schroeder

"Brenda is the best love it.. …you could find your soul mate
♥♡♥"

- Santana Green

"Love it. I met the most amazing girl in the world and we're extremely happy together."

- Esther Lim